The following is my opinion but I think it is pretty simple:


Generally speaking, there is only one reason why people cheat (men and women) when in a committed relationshipand that is because they are not getting their needs met. The trick to getting your needs met is meet the other person's needs (their actual needs - not what you think their needs are).


If a woman would treat her man with respect and actually show sexual/physical interest in him on a regular basis...chances are he will not cheat.


If a man would cherish and appreciate the woman and pay compliments to her on a regular basis...chances are she will not cheat.


I really think we make things harded than they have to be. Instead of thinking that they need to do this for us, we should be thinking we should be doing this for them.