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Edmondo, wrote :

This happened to me and still makes me wonder.


I am going out with a women with two kids. One is 12 and the other is 15. It was coming up to the fourth of July I asked what are they up to and she said she didn’t have plan and was going to stay home. So I asked how about finding something or do something and she agreed. So I found a town BBQ in the next town. When I showed up to go her oldest daughter didn’t want to go, so I said leave her but my GF insisted she comes. Well when we got to the BBQ the daughter refused to get out of the car. Actually she and her mother had a chat for a half a hour. So after the BBQ we went to a ice cream parlor and the daughter didn’t want ice cream but once again the mother pushed it on her. When we got back to her house the daughter went into her room. Her mother went into the room and talked for a while. A little while later my GF told me I had to leave because her daughter was in a bad.


At this point I am wondering who is the adult in her house.

I think, when you date a single parent and decides to stay in the relationship the kids instantly become your kids and you are responsible to do what any loving parent does this includes: help and support your partner in becomming a good parent, treat the kids with genuine love and respect, provide the kids with guidence. This is a challenging experience but can be most rewarding when both your partner and the kids (who are now your own) looks at you as a family member they do not want to be with out.


Good Luck
- November 28th, 2008, 01:20 pm

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