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Oakley Post #13 July 18,2008, 10:40am

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japaneseblueeyes,176165 wrote :

Oakley,171377 wrote :

japaneseblueeyes,171363 wrote :

Have you tried counselling?

I am asking for advice outside of my normal support group. If you can not provide constructive advice please do not leave a comment.

I mean have you tried professional counselling to figure out why you are always the rebound guy? I think it will help you more in the long run since you seem to be in a cycle that you can not break out of. Good luck and keep us posted.

I am sorry for being defensive. Yes I am going to a counselor to break my cycle. The funny thing is. Since I lasted posted the women I was posting about has recontacted me and we could possibly start trying to work things out. Who knows? I just know where my boundaries are now and I hope to stick by them. Wish me luck.