In a relationship, who do you think is more likely to say “I love you” first – men or women? If you are like most people, yo
u might be tempted to say women. In a recent study, 64% of participants were likely to think women were the first to say they were in love, and these professions were estimated to occur close to 2 months into a relationship (Ackerman, Griskevicius, & Li, 2011). The stereotype is that women are more interested in relationships, especially serious relationships, and are therefore more likely to confess their feelings sooner than men.
When looking at actual relationships, however, men were more likely to profess their feelings first! Read more about this research and find out how sexual activity in the relationship and gender changes the way you feel about those 3 little words: click here.



Gian Gonzaga, Ph.D., Senior Director of Research & Development
Grant Langston, Senior Director of Content, eHarmony Advice
Jeannie Assimos, Managing Editor, eHarmony Advice