The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Seattle

Your guide to dating in the Emerald City.

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Seattle has all the charm you’d expect from a town whose nickname is the Emerald City. So it’s not surprising that its population of about 600,000 continues to climb. For you and all the other newcomers, here’s a dating primer.

 

1. Live in Town

 

Downtown and Belltown, near the Space Needle, are expensive but within walking distance of all the major waterfront events and sports venues. For greener pastures that are still close to the action, consider Queen Anne and Ballard—residential communities that offer a mix of retail strips, farmers markets, and yoga studios.

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The younger set that frequents the Belltown, Downtown, and Queen Anne nightlife tends to fall into three categories: Boeing, Microsoft, and Amazon.

2. Take Public Transportation

Bus service by Metro Transit Agency is excellent downtown and in the University of Washington area. Increase your likelihood of meeting a friendly stranger by ditching your car.

3. Go Green

Speaking of being carless, this is a crunchy-granola kind of town. Rather than expensive dinners and gifts, impress your honey with homemade hummus and a handmade card.

4. Get Outside

 

With average high temperatures of 47 degrees Fahrenheit in January and a blissful 75 degrees in June, Seattle is a mecca for the outdoorsy crowd. Most people are fit and active, and you’ll find runners in the parks and along neighborhood sidewalks rain or shine. Take your date Rollerblading along Alki Beach, canoeing through the Washington Park Arboretum, or hiking through the Olympic Mountains.

5. Dress for Drizzle

 

Seattle’s seemingly endless winters mean overcast skies and a steady drizzle and up to six inches of precipitation every month. Skip the umbrella or you’ll look like a tourist, and don’t bother straightening your hair for a date. Just stay dry under a weatherproof jacket so you’ll look cute once you get where you’re going.

 

6. Linger Over a Cup o’ Joe

 

Seattle is the birthplace of Starbucks, so naturally there are plenty of places for a coffee date on a drizzly winter day. Beyond the usual chains, snuggle up to your sweetie at Revolutions, a trendy spot whose large courtyard is prime for people-watching. Or try Bauhaus Books and Coffee, where the floor-to-ceiling bookshelves will spark conversation as you and your date debate which Bronte sister was the most talented.

 

7. Stick to a Budget

 

Check alternative newspapers The Stranger and Seattle Weekly for cheap goings-on. Besides outdoor sports, you can head to Pike Place Market to watch the fishmongers toss lunch around and to sample aphrodisiacs like wine, honey, and chocolates. The place is buzzing with tourists and locals alike, providing ample background noise to fill in those awkward first-date silences.

 

8. Wine and Dine

 

 on the Cheap There are plenty of dinner options in every price range, so set your budget and then decide where to go. You could share a plate of oysters at Ivar’s Seafood for under $20 or drop $100 on dinner for two at the romantically lit Il Bistro.

 

9. Be a Gadget Guru

 

Seattle is teeming with young, tech-savvy professionals. Don’t assume your date is brushing you off if he texts you with dinner details or sends an instant message to tell you he had a good time last night.

 

10. Take a Long Weekend

 

Portland, Oregon, and Vancouver, Canada, are each within a three-hour car ride. When you’re ready to get serious with someone, book a room at a bed and breakfast and make it a long weekend. Road trips are notorious for taking a relationship to the next level because of all that bonding time you have in the car.

 

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I go to Seattle every Sept. to visit family and friends. Last year I attended PaX (a huge gaming convention in the Seattle convention center). I was one of the older attendees there and the kids were great. The people of Seattle have a great attitude (for the most part). I can remember a few years ago I went to a McD's (late dinner after arriving) and the young lady behind the counter was so nice and helpful....I just stopped and stared....then I said "you don't understand I am from Maui where I am not used to being treated like this". I was born in Seattle and raised in central Washington. Seattle is a wonderful city with LOTS of things to do. Last year I got to tour the Boeing air museum for the first time and I highly recommend it. Then there is Fry's in Renton.(great place to take a girl on a first date....just grab some popcorn and go in the back and watch a movie in your own semi-private movie theatre). :);)

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there are so many things to do around here. the last thing i would do with a date is go to pike place market and watch them toss fish. perhaps there is a reason why this article is almost two years old and i am just finding it. it sounds like it was written by someone who had never been here before and came for a weekend...

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The Cheater who has no remorse! Dan S. the Dragonfly! Living in Redmond Washington, has lived in Seattle and California.

Maybe you have met him and maybe you haven’t… Dan S. the Dragonfly

He is the one who tells you he loves you; He is a man who can perform marriage ceremonies yet has multiple relationships on the side while married. He is the one you trust to say the right things at a Funeral, because he is an ordained Man of God

You fall in love and one day during all his playing the field he divorces his wife to marry one of the many relationships, and you find out you are not the one, as I said he had multiple relationships within his marriage and yes I was one of them. I am not proud of that I fell in love with a man who told me he was lonely, and could not leave his marriage because of his three children.

He does not tell you he has fallen for another he is the coward and he tells you he has been exposed to AIDS.

For 10 years you run scared and take all the blood draws first every three months than every 6 months than one every year. In FEAR you keep yourself abstinence from any kind or mature relationship with any man. If you have the viruses that can sit dormant in you, your fearful and do not want to pass it on to another!

Later trying to contact him to see how he is, never getting a return call, so how do you know, you don’t!

Than one day you finally met him again! All those old feelings come back of love, in love and you talk with him and tell him what his words did to you. You find out he cannot remember saying such a thing and you… too find out his words that it was all a lie. Yet in many ways you forgive because he tells you he has always loved you!

He shares that his marriage was wrong she had been having a relationship inside of their marriage. He tells you she divorces him and gets all of his 401 K investments among other monetary value from him, in other word she took him to the cleaners, after only a few short years!

Of course while infidelity is going on all over the place with him and his relationships! The most resent that I know not only has an X husband that she is still very close too but a dysfunctional relationship with her own two children, so he tell me. He shares that the relationship was toxic and that one element that he was most proud of yes proud of was that when he met her she could not see anything beyond her own nose. That he developed and molded her into the women she is now ”his creation”. Of course I find I am in all this mess again however he tells me he is infact single in the beginning of our reunited first date.

We have our love fests his home and mine, He tells me “I love you” than one night he tells me I signed up on one of those on line dating sites, WOW that I was not expecting. Not only this I find out that same evening he is still seeing his X.

I have accepted the fact I am not good enough for him But I am actually too good for him! Yet I do love him and care for him very much. How can I say this and write this article, I have yet to figure that out myself.

I ask him to please see me so we can end this face to face, he is the coward and cannot face what he has done all over again, the pain he has caused. He told me once that he is not man enough to meet and talk with me. Ignoring is more painful infact it hurts my heart to see him this way. I have always thought him a true man of God. A man of God does not do this to another human being.

Ladies if you are out there and have met Dan S. Dragonfly, you will know him by his charm, sophistication well traveled and I have to say he is handsome for his age of 65 this month. Dragonfly works for a worldwide ownership vacation resort timeshare. Beware of the harm he can draw you into and toss you aside with no remorse all in the name of his God! Or “it’s not you it’s me I am the one with the issues”.

On line dating he told me about it and I had to laugh to myself when he said most of the ladies on line that are interested are not that attractive however he state “I could make some money and offer to take three professional photos for $100.00 they could place online profiles to make them more appealing”, you see he is also a professional photographer.

Yes ladies and Gents Dan S. Dragonfly is a Man of God, a professional Cheater, and professional photographer, well traveled because of his work with this resort. His resume is long and he has met some very high profile individuals during his travel and profession.

Am I a women scorn maybe… do I have the facts to back my article YES! Do I have pictures OH yes indeed I have pictures, do I have notes cards writings you betcha! I had his tale of AIDS on my voice mail the tape was mailed back to him, after he got it back he will not talk with me. You may think, why did you mail the tape to him. Well it was this simple I love him and thought I could not hurt him by exposing him. Am I innocent in all this mess Oh No I just got caught up in what I know in my own heart what I had was unconditional love for the Dragonfly.

My testimonial is to make aware this man who calls himself Dragonfly Dan S. a man of God is out there causing pain for unsuspecting women looking for love!

If you have met him and want to talk with me the paper will forward all responses and I will try and respond or even meet with you and talk.

I trusted my heart too Dan S. Dragonfly

Do I miss him… the answer is YES ~ Natasha

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