The Top 10 Guide to Dating in Seattle

Your guide to dating in the Emerald City.

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Seattle has all the charm you’d expect from a town whose nickname is the Emerald City. So it’s not surprising that its population of about 600,000 continues to climb. For you and all the other newcomers, here’s a dating primer.

 

1. Live in Town

 

Downtown and Belltown, near the Space Needle, are expensive but within walking distance of all the major waterfront events and sports venues. For greener pastures that are still close to the action, consider Queen Anne and Ballard—residential communities that offer a mix of retail strips, farmers markets, and yoga studios.

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The younger set that frequents the Belltown, Downtown, and Queen Anne nightlife tends to fall into three categories: Boeing, Microsoft, and Amazon.

2. Take Public Transportation

Bus service by Metro Transit Agency is excellent downtown and in the University of Washington area. Increase your likelihood of meeting a friendly stranger by ditching your car.

3. Go Green

Speaking of being carless, this is a crunchy-granola kind of town. Rather than expensive dinners and gifts, impress your honey with homemade hummus and a handmade card.

4. Get Outside

 

With average high temperatures of 47 degrees Fahrenheit in January and a blissful 75 degrees in June, Seattle is a mecca for the outdoorsy crowd. Most people are fit and active, and you’ll find runners in the parks and along neighborhood sidewalks rain or shine. Take your date Rollerblading along Alki Beach, canoeing through the Washington Park Arboretum, or hiking through the Olympic Mountains.

5. Dress for Drizzle

 

Seattle’s seemingly endless winters mean overcast skies and a steady drizzle and up to six inches of precipitation every month. Skip the umbrella or you’ll look like a tourist, and don’t bother straightening your hair for a date. Just stay dry under a weatherproof jacket so you’ll look cute once you get where you’re going.

 

6. Linger Over a Cup o’ Joe

 

Seattle is the birthplace of Starbucks, so naturally there are plenty of places for a coffee date on a drizzly winter day. Beyond the usual chains, snuggle up to your sweetie at Revolutions, a trendy spot whose large courtyard is prime for people-watching. Or try Bauhaus Books and Coffee, where the floor-to-ceiling bookshelves will spark conversation as you and your date debate which Bronte sister was the most talented.

 

7. Stick to a Budget

 

Check alternative newspapers The Stranger and Seattle Weekly for cheap goings-on. Besides outdoor sports, you can head to Pike Place Market to watch the fishmongers toss lunch around and to sample aphrodisiacs like wine, honey, and chocolates. The place is buzzing with tourists and locals alike, providing ample background noise to fill in those awkward first-date silences.

 

8. Wine and Dine

 

 on the Cheap There are plenty of dinner options in every price range, so set your budget and then decide where to go. You could share a plate of oysters at Ivar’s Seafood for under $20 or drop $100 on dinner for two at the romantically lit Il Bistro.

 

9. Be a Gadget Guru

 

Seattle is teeming with young, tech-savvy professionals. Don’t assume your date is brushing you off if he texts you with dinner details or sends an instant message to tell you he had a good time last night.

 

10. Take a Long Weekend

 

Portland, Oregon, and Vancouver, Canada, are each within a three-hour car ride. When you’re ready to get serious with someone, book a room at a bed and breakfast and make it a long weekend. Road trips are notorious for taking a relationship to the next level because of all that bonding time you have in the car.

 

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Greetings, Jamaican Breeze! I have lived in Clark County, which includes Vancouver, Washington for many years. The International Academy (a local business) has been in business for over 20 years. Welcome to your soon to be new, even if temporary, home. Actually, Portland, Oregon, directly across the Columbia River is as close as crossing one or the other of two bridges. Seattle is about 175 miles North. (I'm glad you didn't assume you would be directly South of the Canadian Border!) We are a city older than Portland, Oregon, Seattle, or The Other Vancouver. There are some local history sites you will enjoy visiting. Clark County/Southwest Washington has quite a bit to offer. We have a symphony as well as other musical groups and events. We have art galleries, little theatre, an excellent library system. Besides the International Academy, we have Clark College (a 2 year community college), a full Washington State University branch, and other vocational and professional educational opportunities. I can recommend our local schools--and teachers--as well. I am an older widow, just beginning to return to single life after being off the market for over 40 years. eHarmony doesn't have many available men in my age group with the minimum needs I seek. As a younger person, your requirements would be much different than mine. Because of all the above areas I have mentioned (as well as many I have not), you may not find it necessary to travel to Seattle, or even cross the bridges to Portland. There are gyms, sports teams, and wonderful parks, trails, and camping sites also. We have grown over the years since I first arrived, so restaurants, night life, and clubs also are available. There are churches over 100 years old, as well as some less than five years old, large and small, who will welcome you. I don't know very much about what younger people enjoy most around here, so I can't be specific. I, however, have found so much to do--cultural, volunteer, spiritual, educational--that my single state is not a burden. Again, welcome to your new home! I sincerely hope you like it here--perhaps enough to stay here forever!
- December 02, 2009 10:17 PM

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dat seatte got the most litte girls i herd.

- December 01, 2009 05:31 PM

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You shouldn't put all women into one basket fibbleman.
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