Online Dating 101: Photos
You don't need to have the skills of a famous fashion photographer, but for best results you should do more than point and click. Follow these eHarmony Photo Guidelines to put your best face forward.
by eHarmony Staff
Step 2: Your Photos
When it comes to selecting the best photos for your profile, you don't want to choose just any old snapshot. You need the right photo-the kind that captures the real you, and attracts and shows your matches who you really are.
1. Make your primary photo sing -
If a picture's worth a thousand words, make sure you're saying your best-smiling, with eyes wide open; they are the windows to the soul. 
2. Showcase your style with your secondary photos -
Secondary photos are those viewed when a match clicks in to your primary photo to see more photos of you. Secondary photos are a great opportunity to showcase your personal style, so long as you stick to these commonsense photo tips and eHarmony Photo Guidelines.
3. The Medium is the Message
| Cell phones and Web cams may seem convenient, but pictures come across grainy and shady. Get a hold of a good digital camera, take traditional film photos and scan at a high resolution, or have them professionally taken. |
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Another option: Professional Photos
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Long gone are the days when you'd get your picture taken every year in school. Professional photos are another way to guarantee great pictures for your profile. Photographers and photo studios are easy to come by and headshots needn't cost a ton of money. Plus, professional image quality is far superior than most do-it-yourself options. |
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On to Step 3: Guided Communication >>
27 comments on
“Online Dating 101: Photos”
I hope this dateing site works better than the other ones .
- January 22, 2010 06:30 PM
This is good stuff. Internet dating is definitely slanted far more to looks and physical attraction than one would think or tries to believe.
Of course, with traditional dating, looks don't matter at all. :eek:
- December 29, 2009 10:01 PM
I'm not going to lie. The photo is the first thing I look at. I look for men who match my own level of attractiveness and personality. I think most people look for the same. I feel that photos give me very good idea of the person's personality, more so than the written profile. I can see if they're fun, sloppy, goofy, insecure, introvert, life of the party, sporty, casual, serious, who they surround themselves with, etc. And yes, I want to be attracted to my date. What's wrong with that? If that means I am shallow, so be it. I think that men are pickier than women when it comes to looks so I don't understand why they get so bothered when they get closed. I'm sure many guys have closed me because they didn't like my photos. That's ok. I don't get all bent out of shape. I can't be everyone's type. If the photo is good but the profile is not what I'm looking for, I will close. Why waste my time, right?
- December 29, 2009 09:44 PM
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