5 Types of Women that Men Avoid

Ooooh, that's a bad one that I see a LOT! Always tried to avoid being like that. Too many women humiliate their men, especially in public, then have no respect for them because they don't act "manly" enough. Gee, wonder what caused that. I always thought that, if I treated my honey like Superman in front of his friends, I could always be his Lois Lane.

Also read "For Women Only" at the request of a date's frend. GREAT book, though most of it was stuff I already knew. I also read "For Men Only", just to make sure what he was reading was accurate, and it was dead on. I highly recommend both books.

As for an answer to your question, I'm just a chick, but I always felt men NEEDED respect. But I could be wrong.

At the risk of sounding like a game player, may I suggest that women have a desire to be pursued. Maybe the "freak out" is simply an unconscious stepping back so that they can be pursued. Men were created to be "Hunters" and society has taught them otherwise. I can tend to be very forward and controlling but am learning to step back and let the man make the appropriate moves. When you get ready for hunting, dont you have to make many preparations for whatever circumstance may occur? You have to study the terrain, weather, altitude, and be sure you have all the gear to help you be prepared. When the animal "freaks out" because you got a little too close, too soon, then you must adjust and make a new plan of pursuit, that is if you want the catch. You may at this time be cold, winded, hungry, or just plain tired and decide she is not worth the pursuit. Sometimes it could be because of a blemish you see on the animal, but often it is because you didnt come prepared for what it takes to catch her. Maybe she simply needs to see if you will still pursue the relationship. I am not saying that the "freak out" is a manipulative move on her part. It was most likely a genuine, "oh my, what am I doing here." Remember, the majority of women operate on emotions more so than men. What you call "freak out" is normal for her. If you want a woman in your life, you may have to learn to deal with the "freak out" thing and figure out what it takes to woo her back and calm her fears, when it happens. Just like the "Horse Whisperer" has to draw near to the horse and whisper calm words to the fearful horse, you may have to draw near and be calm and loving to alleviate her fears. If you are not willing to do this and dont have the patience for this type of response, then she is most likely better off without you. This may be harsh, and merely my opinion, but I have also been through a 21 year marriage and have 3 almost grown children, so have been around the block a few times. Blessings to you.

Then #6 must be: The honest, direct female. Men want to hear what a female "means"??? I don't think so. Men seem to prefer not 'understanding' what communication 'means' to give them an easy way out. Men that I've met don't know what to do with honest and direct communication. Don't ask me a question if you want to hear something other than the truth, about anything. It's a much easier and intelligent conversation when an interpretive dictionary is needed.