Advice Profile
sc4me ...in his own words.
Updated more than a month ago.
| Gender: | Male |
| Marital Status: | Single |
| Occupation: | Financial Consultant |
| Location: | South Carolina |
| Interests: | I like doing so many things. I guess what I find myself doing the most is reading and writing. After that I love to travel - even short hops - trying new restaurants, exploring, boating and spending time with family and friends. I also enjoy a night at home with a good movie. I don't care for the bar scene or anything directed at or for singles only. |
| Religion: | Christian |
| Political Views: | Moderate |
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My Favorites
Music: Alison Krauss, Sarah McLachlan, Alanis Morissette, 3 Doors Down, Snow Patrol , Five for Fighting, Norah Jones, Sting and John Mayer. People tell me there is too much "angst" in Sarah's music, but I find it healing because her lyrics are so "human." When you think about it, more than 50% of popular music is about life's bummers. She just puts the skunk on the table so to speak. TV Shows: I don't watch much TV, but when I do I like comedy and suspense. "Saving Grace" has become a favorite. I like the idea of a "guardian angel." I'll also watch college sports - especially football - on weekends. I think Jon Stewart (Daily Show) is funny - and intelligent. Movies: Damn, I like so many movies. I tend towards movies that were not big box office hits, but have wonderful characters and a good story. Ripple Effect and The Healer are two that fit that description. I also liked Sideways, the "Bourne" movies, Love Actually, Dead Poets Society, Astronaut Farmer, Shawshank Redemption, My Cousin Vinny and Trading Places. (old Eddie Murphy and Dan Akroyd movie) Books: Traveling Mercies, Bird by Bird, The Real Lincoln, Original Intent, Ten Things You Should Know about Love, Marriage and Relationships, Mere Christianity, Boundaries, The Road Less Traveled, the Bible, and a book I am working on .... but have not finished. Quotes: "We have no government armed with power capable of contending with human passions unbridled by morality and religion. Avarice, ambition, revenge or gallantry would break the strongest cords of our Constitution as a whale goes through a net. Our Constitution is designed only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate for any other." - John Adams ~~~ "If you can keep your wits when all around you people are losing theirs, then you clearly don't understand the gravity of the problem." - unknown ~~~~~ "Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute. THAT'S relativity. " - Einstein ~~~~~ "So when you feel your thoughts grow cold, and the world you left behind grows bold, it's best to let it all go, just pass you by, or misery and loneliness will bind you...... you'll never have wings to fly." - me More About Me: I am a forgiving soul, but not a doormat. I have learned that some people are just not good for me so when I meet a mean spirited, angry or manipulative person I have learned to say "no." I also believe that we have value apart from what we possess, have done or can do because we are all created by God. I didn't make this up I'm sure, but it fits with my favorite quotes; "always tell the truth, even if you think it will hurt, because the truth will only hurt for a little while, but a lie will hurt for a lifetime." -
My Activities
More than a month ago.
sc4me posted in Met the perfect woman; slight obstacle; your thoughts?
sc4me posted in New perspective on my situation
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sc4me created topic Courage to Break Past Relationship Patterns
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sc4me and Wonderwoman402 are friends
sc4me created topic Ex is poisoning the mind of our children - what to do?
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sc4me posted in Game: Stream of Consciousness
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My Friends’ Activities
Today.
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Yesterday.
Wonderwoman402 posted in Dry spells
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littlebluemonkeymind posted in Kill this thread before Faira does
littlebluemonkeymind posted in Kill this thread before Faira does
littlebluemonkeymind posted in Food for thought
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