In the most incompatible relationships what you’ll find is that when the initial honeymoon physical chemistry wears off the entire interaction with each other in the relationship becomes a series of uncomfortable concessions that compromise or dull your individual authenticity, leading you to ask the question, "Do we ever have any fun anymore?" When there is compatibility and chemistry, however, the interactions are easygoing and happy.

While all relationships have some degree of compromise, it’s easier to come to agreements about critical issues in the relationship when you both have the ability to identify with how the other person is thinking and feeling. So make sure that in the early stages of a relationship you are able to focus you attention on her clearly, and more than likely that means pulling in the reins on the physical aspect of the relationship until you have an accurate assessment of how you and she connect, and whether your interest in one another is mutual. Physical chemistry and expression is something to celebrate, but at the right time.

Getting to know lots of women about whom you are making decisions about the likelihood of relationship longevity and satisfaction is what dating is all about. Don’t look toward the media for instructions on how to manage your sexuality; it’s a very personal and unique thing. If you can’t become physically involved with a woman without both of you feeling good about the event and where your relationship is going the next day, then hold off and wait a bit longer for the union to develop where it needs to for success. To rush things may meet your immediate sexual needs in a relationship, but none of the equally important qualities that determine whether your Ms. Right Now is Ms. Right.

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