Meet Someone Special at These Places

Having problems meeting quality people at bars or the gym? If the answer is yes, it's time to break out of your old routine and try a new adventure.

by eHarmony Staff

It’s a sad fact of life that once you hit a certain age, meeting new people becomes incredibly difficult. Remember the good old school days, when you had scores of peers your own age at your disposal? If only meeting people today were as easy as starting a new class.

1. The Dog Park

Much more than a man (or woman’s) best friend, ol’ Roy can also act as a mate magnet. He’s a cute conversation starter, and you can socialize with other responsible dog owners as he gets some exercise. You already share something in common, so why not discuss dog food options or how to get your four-legged friend to stop chasing his tail?

Research confirms that pet owners lead healthier and longer lives, which is an encouraging indication that someone you meet at the dog park is active and caring. So while your pooch is mingling with other furry friends, practice mingling yourself.

2. Seminars and Classes

Maybe you won’t find many men in knitting class, but think of something else you’ve always wanted to learn and then do it! Take a class in woodworking, cooking or dancing, or attend a seminar on financial planning or buying your first home. The local adult annex, community college and neighborhood park services usually offer a wide range of classes, from wine appreciation to yoga. Even if you don’t snag Mr. or Ms. Right during the drawing class, at least you will have learned something new at the end of the eight weeks.

3. Airport/Airplane

The hassle of the airports’ 3-3-1 policy and long screening lines are things you must endure to get to your travel destination. Surprisingly, if you look up from the carry-on conveyor and shoe removal process, you can very likely commiserate over something with an attractive traveler. While you’re waiting for your flight to take off, strike up a conversation with the person sitting next to you. If the conversation is strained or there is just no chance for any kind of connection, it’s easy to wiggle out by plugging in your iPod or laptop and getting to work.

4. On the Field

Sports are a great way to stay active and have fun doing it. Community sports often support co-ed teams that require a certain male-to-female ratio. Try out your neighborhood softball team, running club, volleyball team or any other group activity that gets you in gear. You are sure to see your teammates at least once a week, often enough to get to know them and spend some quality time. Sweating doesn’t sound like fun? You can still meet others as a fan in stadiums big and small. Head for the local kids’ soccer field or your city’s baseball diamond to meet single parents and other fans like you.

5. At your Place

Need a reason to party? Forget going to a party…why not host a singles’ night at your place? Invite all your friends and have each one invite two or three single friends. Someone at the party knows the guy or gal that you have been eyeing and may be able to make introductions. Further, go to every party you are invited to. Graciously accept the invites to your co-worker’s music gig on Tuesday night, or your cousin’s clambake at the beach this weekend. Say yes even if you are tired or shy. Everyone can benefit from a change in scenery, making new friends and quite possibly meeting some potential dates.